could always take my approach, start from far away, wait till she sees you, then try to make a long time eye contact. then before she looks away, throw whatever you have in your hands, and charge at her screaming, as soon as you reach her sit down cross legged and say hi. It's states much about your character. -nod nod-

Hmmm... thanks but no thanks. =)

Walk up to her, and just flat-ass, outright tell her you think you like her, and you'd like to get to know her better to make sure. Things don't have to be that complicated. (carry a lighter with you and if you catch her before she lights up, walk over and light it for her)

(don't listen to Noremac, he'd wait till it was crowded and try to cop an anonymous feel of her boob)

edit: oh yeah, the art. I love the angle you used on this, and the simplicity of it.

oh hush, i wouldnt be sneaky about it at all. it would be more like. "Hello ma'am, pleasent day is it not? would you mind if i just, grabbed your boob" and then regardless of what they would say, i would do it anyways, girls love that.

Some girls love it, but watch out, uninvited, somebody's liable to slap your ass into next week. :) (either that, or she might have a very large boyfriend with large arms covered with tatoos and then you won't see next week)

Cam: I laughed at your post then i laughed at your double-post. =)
DBA: I like your lighter idea Cindy, unfortuanntely i wouldn't have the balls to perform such feat, and i doubt a lighter would work under the stormy weather at this time.

EDIT: I'm gonna take a lighter with me tommorow morning anyhow, and pray to god that she forgets hers. Now... where did my parents hide those lighters...

like i've always said, you can spend your life body building, or learning a martial arts, but you can spend 3 days and buy a gun. :D

Of course you do, hunter. Buy a zippo, make sure it has plenty of lighter fluid, and you can light her cigarette in the middle of a hurricane, I promise. You don't really have to say anything at all, just walk up, hold out the lighter and say "may I?" It's not that difficult.

DBA has a PHD in cheesy

Except with smoking, I think it's more like, "May I...(kill you)?" :P

Whatever works, baby.... and trust me, that works. It's not cheesey, and even if it were, girls like it when you like them enough to be vulnerable and "cheesey".

(dont' hold a gun on her, I told you don't listen to Noremac... she probably has a BIGGER gun)

lol Niel ;)... the cigarettes are doing that already

I can understand sappy, but that's so classic anime pickup line, see if you walked up did some crazy look then said something like. "You want FIYAH?" that's a goodun.

and you are surrounded by and have your choice of desirable women, right? I'll let Hunter decide whose advice to take... this is seriously making me laugh.

"You want FIYAH?"

LMAO that's so random i'm tempted to try it.

"May I...(kill you)?"

That would work if i had one a' em' gun lighters. =)

well, i can tell you what NOT to do, dont randomly drop kick her while she's standing.
dont, light her on fire
dont, ask her if she's a lesbian (Bad history with that one)

Is her hair really that color? Because if it is, you could break the ice by saying.... is that Cherry and Grape koolaid, or did you buy some dye at the Piggly Wiggly?

Mmm... We don't have Koolaid nor 'Piggle Wiggly' here. Saying that to her would be about as random as "You want FIYAH?!" =)
I like where this discussion is going.

EDIT: Oh yeah, it's a tad darker, though.

I know, we don't have Piggly Wiggly's (any more, that I know of) I just used to crack up laughing everytime I passed one. Yes, the hair dye thing was not serious advice. Just buy a good lighter, if you can't keep your hand steady enough to light her cigarette, just walk up and say "Hi"... see what happens. Some of you guys miss out so much because you're afraid for no reason.

Some of you guys miss out so much because you're afraid for no reason.

It's so true.

It's the embarrassment factor i think.

Yes, it is. She's just as afraid as you are. What's the worst thing that could possibly happen? If she rejects you, you haven't lost anything... you're just back where you started. You only have something to gain. Go for it.

edit after Gig: okay, here's a scenario. My husband is extremely shy. The night I met him, I had gone to a club with friends after a party at the law firm I worked for. He walked up to me and asked if he could buy me a drink. I smiled and said "No, thank you, I already have one" He kind of flinched and then he said "would you like to dance?" this was a place called "the Wild West" and I was wearing heels... no two stepping there... I lifted my foot and said, no, thank you, I can't two step in these shoes. He looked down at the floor and started to walk away, at which point I grabbed his arm, pulled him towards me and said, "you can kiss me, though" and I laid one really long one on him, and here we are over 18 years later. You never know what's going to happen... go for it.

I'm going to find a ilghter right now. =)
I would like to end this discussion now... this crappy picture is going to end up as my gallery feature of this quater year. =(
Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.

I'm with you, there, this is what happens to all the pictures I don't want moving up in my gallery. Although, this one isn't crappy.

right awwwwn :)

Like i said, crappy pic. I did, however, attempt to sketch her on the train when she was sitting close, but drawing on a crowded train is awkward. =\

oh my gosh..first of all I like your pic Hunter. Hope you say hi..it works wonders. DBA...you rock ! "you can kiss me, though"...we have so much in common...hahaha....remind me to tell you a great story about 'breakin the ice with Tom...'