Adorable so far, is she Asian? Know what you mean by how artists transfer looks. I can somewhat draw faces, but not really capture the essence of how somebody really looks.

Yes, she is. the fact that you've asked means that I have to fix something to make it more obvious.. eyes maybe?
another thing, any ideas on how to make her pony (is that how they call it english too?-the front short hair) softener?
BTW, She went out somillar to the ref, my problem is more with her expression.

Actually, the eyes are what gave the Asian part away. In fact, the entire face is well done. just wasn't sure :D.
I have no clue where you're from (Germany or the Netherlands perhaps?), but I know what you mean by pony, in English it's "bangs". When in doubt, first clone the layer of her hair (if you are using layers) to ensure you don't mess up what you have so far. You could either add real thin whisps of hair, or erase some of the hair already there to make it look more tapered. That is at least what I always do to make it look more natural and soft.